Training Your Dog to Listen to You


Training Your Dog to Listen to You

Why Won’t My Dog Listen To Me?

This is a question that many friends have asked me. Also, I have been stopped in the street by Dog owners Who have also asked this question. However, before I attempt to answer your question, let me ask you a few instead:

  • Do you use collars, head halters or clickers to make your Dog listen to your commands?
  • Do you have to raise your voice every time you want your Dog to listen to you?
  • Does your Dog always come or sit on command – anytime and anywhere you want him to?

If your answers are mostly in the negative, its time you seriously reconsider your role as a sincere Dog trainer and an ideal pet parent.

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Get Your Dog To Listen To You

Before you begin any training, you must first establish yourself as the “ALPHA dog” of your family. Your Dog must know that you’re the leader of the pack and it is YOU who is in charge.

Here is a list of simple DO’s and DONT’s that you must follow if you want to be the Alpha:

  • Always go out or come in through the door first – remember you are the leader;
  • Always eat first – give your Dog something to eat only after you’ve finished your meal;
  • Don’t circle around your Dog when he is lying on the floor – make your Dog move out of your way instead;
  • Don’t let your Dog set the rules – pay attention to him when you think fit, and not whenever he demands;
  • Don’t let your Dog sleep with you in your bed – make sure you mark out his sleeping area clearly.

Once you have successfully established yourself as the Alpha, training your Dog and making him listen will be a lot easier than you can imagine. Remember, if your Dog does not learn to “listen”, all your training efforts will be in vain!

Does your Dog know his name? Does your Dog look at you whenever you call him by his name? This is the first and the most critical step involved in Dog Training. If your Dog doesn’t respond to his name, you cannot have his attention for teaching him any other commands.

To make sure that your Dog recognizes his name, take a treat in your hand and hold it away from your body. Call your Dog’s name. He is most likely to look at the treat in your hand. Continue calling his name until he turns and looks at your eyes. Give him the treat immediately. Repeat this exercise by holding the treat in the other hand. Once you’re sure that your Dog has learnt to recognize his name, just call his name and reward him for looking at you with a pat or a hug.

You must understand that Dogs respond far better to positive reinforcement than they do to coercion or force.

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These are the very basic ways to start training your dog. The pillars to which you can build on if you like. Once you have mastered these you can then go onto further educating your loved ones.

If you have any comments or feedback please feel free to drop me a line.


4 Replies to “Training Your Dog to Listen to You”

  1. Thank you, David, for this article;  is exactly what I needed. I am a dog lover like you and your wife; The difference is that you are professional. I appreciate Dog Training, in particular, because in my case, I am dealing with the youngest of my two dogs, who is the most rebellious. 
    Reading this article, it opened my eyes, seeing how many basic things I do wrong. From what you listed, all. It should not surprise me why he did not listen to me.:-/
    A very good article, it presents important aspects and information for dog lovers. I will look forward to the next articles.


    1. Hi Diana,
      I know exactly where you are coming from. To really train your Dog takes commitment and you cannot feel sorry for them when you tell them No !!! No matter how much we want to pick them up and give them a cuddle ha ha. With my two, the oldest Hudson is very well trained. Unfortunately our smallest, Nelly, has been over spoilt but that is our own fault. She does have a mind of her own but as my wife says we must enjoy them.
      Thanks again for dropping me a line. Have a great day.

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